Tuesday, July 30, 2024

Love Letters

 It has been fun to have Nancy here for Olivia's wedding, which was also fun, and to have Rosie and her girls visiting from OK. You can read all about it, and see pictures, in Nancy's blog! Here: Monday at the Museum.  And that post's coda here: More Museum Pictures. Wedding post to come from Nancy. I took no pictures at Olivia's wedding because A) I left my phone at home, and B) I would have been too busy to use it anyway! 

One fun thing about having Nancy come was receiving "love letters" from her children.

Ben's was an actual love letter, or more accurately love CARD, and it brought tears to me eyes. 


I do not frequently, or ever, feel like an amazing grandparent, so this love letter was such a surprise. I love you, Ben, and thank you. And I miss you too!!

Alexander showed me his printing skill, and his drawing skill. And he used my favorite light blue color, and also some of my favorite light pink color. The theme is transportation! While his mom was here, we used a car, and she got here by plane. But we did not ride in a helicopter! That would be fun to do one day. Thank you, Alexander, and I love you.


And Phoebe was rather in a rush with her pictures, since the last minute was upon her. I am thankful to get her pictures that are bright and colorful. And I love you, too, Phoebe.


And to Miss Z: You made such a wonderful card for Grandpa Frank!! And it made him so happy!! I love you as well, and it made me happy to see how much joy Grandpa Frank got from your card. He cannot hear, so talking with your mom was hard for him, but he can still read just fine, and your card made his day!

You are all such thoughtful and kind children! I love you very much!

Wednesday, July 24, 2024

Happy Pioneer Day

 July 24 is Pioneer Day, and a holiday in Utah, celebrating the Mormon Pioneers entering the Salt Lake Valley on July 24, 1847. I spent the day mostly sleeping! Which is funny, because I spent the day on July 4 mostly doing genealogy, an activity that seems to "go with" today better!

I drove Josie to the Provo Court House where there was a rally in support of Palestine, and they were walking to Pioneer Park and then having speakers and stuff. They didn't get too heckled, although they did get heckled--just not too badly. While she was there baking in the hot sun, I was sleeping. Bruce was of course sleeping too, because he works at night.

But we did have pie (or little mini pie tarts) for pie-o-neer day. And on Sunday I had the rare treat of subbing for Primary music, so I sang pioneer songs that day. The children were lovely and such willing participants. They have really good music leaders, and they have already learned to be fully engaged, so it was a lot of fun to sing with them!

I had three funerals over the weekend. Friday for Darl Johnson from our north Orem ward. He had some type of cancer, and his funeral was lovely. Five of his granddaughters sang "My daddy's hands" only "My grandpa's hands," and his five daughters all spoke. It was a fine tribute. I was sitting with Jake Thomas (his wife Noel was in the kitchen, but also sitting there for a bit) and on the other side of Jake was Stan McBean. We all left through the quick get away door, and I thought it was pretty funny, because we all drive red cars, which I only realized as we were firing up our engines! So the first cars out of the parking lot were all the red ones.

Mary J. reminded me that she and I were extras together in something--she could not remember what. And neither can I! I had forgotten all about it, but once she reminded me, I remembered that she had asked me, since I was frequently being an extra in those days of Josie's acting years, if she could come too. So one time, there was a call for adults, and I picked her up and we went. I know we went somewhere up Provo Canyon, but I can't remember what it was for, either.

Saturday was John Wright's funeral. He was my library colleague for these past 23 years, and after he was beset with lung cancer (!!) four years ago, he has been slowly going downhill. His one desire was to get in enough years to retire with full benefits to leave his wife in good financial shape, and he made it. He did have to do a couple of months of FMLA leave, and then he retired earlier this year, a few months ago. He was so so skinny. Such a nice, kind person. His oldest son had died in a bizarre accident, which I wrote about here. They died exactly 11 months apart. 

John's funeral was so lovely. His children are all very musical, and we had singing and violins and oboe and cello and piano. I was so surprised because his daughter Alyssa, who was my employee for four or five years, is soooo good. She played oboe and piano and was the arranger of one of the pieces, and I. Had. No. Clue. She was not a music major, and she is also very quiet, and when we needed musicians, she let the music majors shine. She is amazing, and I never knew it! (Well, I knew she was an amazing employee. I didn't know she was an amazing musician.)

Tuesday was Skip Tandy's funeral. He was our first friend in our new neighborhood. He was such a lovely, friendly man. His three surviving sons spoke--they had one son who died in 1997 at age 27. Skip had Alzheimer's, and actually went pretty fast. I had begun to worry about him, sometimes passing him walking way far from home, or crossing busy streets not at the light...his family worried, too, and so for two months he has been in a memory care facility. But only two months--that was a merciful release for him. 

I have been preoccupied with my right knee, which decided a few weeks ago to go on strike. Wow. That is not fun. I am so thankful it is getting better, though I still have to do stairs with both feet on a stair, leading with the right on the way down, and the left on the way up. Fun Times!! Getting old and having one's body wear out is such a kick!

Wednesday, July 10, 2024

Pretty Good Day

 1. I had a Zoom meeting with the editors of Micro Editions for the online academic journal called Scholarly Editing, and I am greenlighted to start the process for a Jo Anna Kneeland micro edition. She was a dance scholar--the first to look at ballet training with an eye to kinesiology. She was fully a decade ahead of all the people who jumped on the bandwagon about it, but most of her "stuff" is unpublished. I just need to tie her son (and only heir) down to sign permissions or the project is dead in the water. He keeps NOT contacting me when he says he will "try." In his defense, he had a stroke and his speech is badly affected, so I can't call him. Like I can leave a message, but he doesn't pick up because he is afraid of not being understood. I am excited about this project and very worried because I don't want her work that I have access to to disappear forwever!

2. My student from years ago, Michael Wilson, came to visit me! He has lost weight, and he was wearing a hat. So I was not quick to recognize him!! Hats get me every time!! 


He lives on the Kentucky side of Minneapolis, and works across the street from the convention center I was just at in February!! I didn't realize that. He works at the head office of Kroger. (No, I do not know what that little weird blue circle is on my glasses! A trick of the lighting, I guess?)

3. My article about William Primrose in America was published in Japan. This was a requested article from a Japanese TV station. The producer mailed me two copies today. So fun to see it in real life!


She also sent me a cute note with it:


So, that was fun!